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Aug. 3rd, 2005 10:18 am
valkryor: (March Hare)
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Okay...so now what?

Date: 2005-08-03 02:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] robertom.livejournal.com
don't know. mourn for a bit, that will be useful, then try to live... move to england with the mad azorean.

Date: 2005-08-03 03:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] okoshun.livejournal.com
If it was me, in my weird obsessive list-making way I'd probably start by making myself a list of what needs to be done then start with the thing that's easiest or most important to me. When that's done I'd move on to the next thing that's easiest or most important to me. I'd take breaks as I need them, visit friends (or ask them to visit me), nap, eat, sleep as required and just be doing something, anything to keep my mind occupied.

Date: 2005-08-03 03:38 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] joncanuck
Whatever feels right, which will take some time I'm sure for anything to feel right.

Spend the time with your hubby to move through this together, but get enough time to yourself too. I'm sure balance will be the key word here as everyone mourns differently.

Be selfish, do what you and your marriage needs. The world will just have to understand.

Date: 2005-08-03 04:45 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] persephoneplace.livejournal.com
Remember you are surrounded by people who care.

Be alone when you need and with others when you need.

Cry, - a lot - and then some more. And put one foot in front of the other one until it no longer feels like you are wearing concrete boots.

Date: 2005-08-03 06:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] epi-lj.livejournal.com
You've received a lot of advice so far. I'll just say that when I'm in situations of grief or shock, I as much as possible just try to stay busy. I don't know if that's healthy or not, but even going through life mechanically helps pass the hours little by little, and only time really helps. :(

Date: 2005-08-03 06:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] iamjw.livejournal.com
Yes. That.

Date: 2005-08-04 12:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] twilightrabbit.livejournal.com
Call when you need company. Many friends are waiting. Do what you want. You're more than welcome and allowed and capable.
My recomendation is to do at least one stupid thing you would have never done before, because there was no time for it. Indulge.

Date: 2005-08-04 01:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] boodled.livejournal.com
Couldn't have said it better myself.

Date: 2005-08-04 02:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hollygoth.livejournal.com
now what.?
you cry
you feel normal
you feel like your insides are being pushed through every pore of your body
you rage
you laugh
you cry
you see a bit of happiness
you cry some more.
eventually it gets less and less,
but you still cry, you still laugh, you still rage.
and you still love.

love to you both.

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